Homemade All Natural Deep Conditioner



This homemade conditioner is a PERSONAL fave of mine, and I swear by it! It’s cheap, and HIGHLY effective!!  The ingredients are simple..

1. 2 RIPE avocados 

2. 2 tablespoons of honey

3. Extra Virgin Olive Oil OR coconut oil

Combine all ingredients, slather onto your wet kinky curly hair mop of love, and let it marinate for 30mins to an hour.. Be sure to use a plastic cap so that these ingredients are allowed to “do what it do!”

Below I will tell you what each ingredient does in regards to the hair..


It’s a well known fact that, olive oil can be a fantastic conditioner for hair but there are many other things about this essential oil that make it a great go-to for hair care. Olive oil is one of the top emollients that is known to penetrate the hair better than others. That doesn’t just mean that it nourishes and conditions. An olive oil treatment can improve the elasticity and strength of your hair far better than other essential oils.

There are other even lesser known facts about olive oil. For instance, olive oil is not just an average emollient. It contains anti-inflammatory properties that promote scalp health and prevent dandruff. What’s more, olive oil is not likely to cause an allergic reaction, which makes it easier on sensitive skin and hair.

TheNaturalista side bar definition EMOLLIENT-having the quality of softening or soothing the skin.

For those of us who haven’t been blessed with thick, amazing locks of hair, the question of  how to make your hair grow faster naturally is quite important.   A thick, glorious mane of hair has always been a crowning asset to both men and women throughout the ages.   If that wasn’t the case, there would be no need for beauticians and hair salons, not to mention the thousands of brands of hair care products that promise a healthy, envious head of beautiful hair.

So what can you do to make your hair grow faster naturally?  And, what are easy tips to make your hair grow faster?

First of all, did you realize that your hair grows about 1/4 to 1/2 inch per month?  What determines how fast your hair grows?  Your parents.  How fast your hair grows has already been pre-determined for you, so there is nothing you can do about this.  Sorry.  But, does this mean that you are doomed to a life of short, unhealthy hair?  Thankfully, no.   By changing some of your everyday habits, you can see a significant improvement in your hair’s length and health.   What are some of these habits?


Certain medications, some illnesses (anemia), changes in hormone levels, stress, and even different times of the year can affect the condition of your hair.   Some of these cannot be helped, but if you are smoking or overly stressed, this is a good time to fix the situation.  Seek help if needed so that your body can operate at its best capacity.

It also acts as a humectant by pulling water out of the air, so the use of honey on the hair and scalp has seen marvelous results in helping the hair to become glowing and healthy.

HUMECTANT- a substance that promotes retention of moisture


Nourishing Hair With Avocado

What exactly does this creamy, green fruit contain to boost hair health? It is an excellent source of vitamin C, which is great for hair follicles, supporting healthy circulation to the scalp and collagen production. It contains vitamins B5 and B6, which may prevent hair loss. Avocados also contain vitamin E, an antioxidant that protects cells and may encourage healthy growth.

Add sliced avocado to salads to help the body absorb the antioxidants from green leafy vegetables. Try creamy avocado spread on a bagel instead of cream cheese or use it in place of mayonnaise to create a hair-healthy tuna salad. The vitamin C in the avocado will help the body absorb the iron from the tuna. I may not eat an avocado every day, but I enjoy a serving several times a week in order to get those nutrients for healthy, beautiful hair.

Avocado and Coconut Oil Hair Mask

Do you want to know how to make hair grow beautifully without eating avocado? Use it in a conditioning hair mask. I like to combine avocado with coconut oil, another great source of vitamin E. The two together help to nourish the scalp and soften hair. My hair always feels stronger after using this treatment.

To make a mask, mash one-half of a ripe avocado. Mix it with three tablespoons of room temperature coconut oil. I also add two drops of rosemary essential oil. Apply to damp hair. Wrap a towel around your head and let the mask do its work for half an hour. Rinse and shampoo as normal. Try this hair treatment once a week and enjoy this delicious fruit for healthy, gorgeous hair. Once again my natural beauties, it’s been REAL!!


My Beautiful Hair Struggle


This blog will be about me and the struggle I’ve had with finding what works for me and my 4B hair!  I’ve big chopped my hair a total of 3 times within 7 years.. All due to chemicals. I have very soft hair, and I KNOW chemicals do not work for me, but yet and still I would put them in my damn hair.. What’s the definition of INSANITY?? Umm yeah, she was I, and I was she!! The last BC was in March 2013. I had been going to my stylist for 2 yrs and she suggested I’d texturize my hair and of course trusting her and not what I KNEW about my damn hair, I went for it! This was the first time chemical had touched my hair in ummm 4yrs.. After it was done and rinsed out I KNEW I had made a mistake!! The ends were STRAIGHT and the mass was a very lose wave, not a fucking CURL! I went home that day and CRIED my eyes out, and was anxious as hell to cut the shit out! Needless to say,

ALL 12 inches of my hair fell and broke off, I kind you not in 3 months!! LORD HAVE MERCY! My former stylist tried to save the little bit I had left, but I told her to just cut all that shit out! I mean what was the damn point? LOL!  Anywho, fast forward to 9 months later! My hair has went from a fade to 8 inches retained! I will like to credit that to my protective styling and NO HEAT! When I tell you I KEPT a half wig on my head! I did just that! These days I’m rocking my “poetic justice” jawns.. It’s time for them to come out, I’ve only had them in for 1 month and I have HELLA new growth! Thank you JEEEEEBUUUUSSS!!!! Long story short, I vow to NEVER put another fucking chemical in my head, nor will I do a color… FUCK ALL OF THAT!! For those of you out there struggling to manage or deal with your hair, know this I feel where you are coming from! But I PROMISE you it will get better and the results will be REWARDING!! Happy growing my lovelies!!


The Introduction

Welcome to my world! I’m not new to blogging, however I will be NEW to an individual blog! I have a passion for writing, and helping others anyway I can! Let’s NETWORK! Empower and encourage one another, but most importantly let’s have FUN learning about the hair that God intended us to have!!  Women of ALL colors!! Welcome!! 


The Naturalista- A child of God.. Lover of Natural Hair and all it entails. Been natural for 6 years. #CurlyKinkyChicksRock  #ProBlack #BlackIsBeautiful #MusicHead music is my life and it truly does affect my mood, and it soothes me.. If you were to take away music, you’ll take away my soul. #Techie #ImportedFromDetroit. I’m a free spirit, I believe in the #LawOfAttraction. Think of me as a hippie MINUS the “free love” and “hard core drugs” LOL! I’m a huge conspiracy theorist, humanitarian, very in tune with my spirituality, I #EatClean and exercise when I feel like it,… Overall, I’ll like to say I’m a pretty well rounded individual, not the norm at all…. I’m PROUD of that fact! I’m also a GOOF BALL!! My motto for life is simple… “CARPE DIEM!” (seize the day) Oh, and I’m 26 with ZERO, ZILCH kiddies!! I have so much I want to do in life, that excludes them.. Not a diss at the parents though! They are our future!! But yea, that’s “The Naturalista”  in a nutshell..